Do you have a friend that’s getting on your last nerve?
Or a family member?
How about a neighbor?
Your hubby?
Kids?
Someone at your church?
A customer service representative?
Someone at school?
Since I can check off a few of the above, it appears that it’s time, again, for me to step it up. My love walk that is…
My very first spiritual mentor, Victoria, encouraged me with this step on how to step up my love walk and I’d like to share it with you. Since 1 John 4:8 tells us that God is love…and I desperately want to be more God-like in my love walk. Victoria said to substitute my name in for “love” in the big love chapter, 1 Corinthians 13:4-6 (NIV), and speak it out.
So I did it again this morning.
Steph is patient, Steph is kind. Steph does not envy, Steph does not boast, Steph is not proud. Steph is not rude, Steph is not self-seeking, Steph is not easily angered, Steph keeps no record of wrongs. Steph does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. Steph always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
The Holy Spirit showed me two specific people where I’ve not been patient, kind, and where I’ve been very easily angered.
Blech.
One I will share a home with for my entire life, the Finkster. If there’s one person in the entire world that I want to be found patient, kind and slow to anger…it’s my other half.
The other person, I need to deal with until our new home is finished being built. I have allowed my low tolerance for double talk, non-sense, and lack of progress/professionalism to justify my verbal butt kicking (okay, kickingS as there were three heated conversations). I highly doubt this dude knows Jesus, and the kicker is, I doubt that he’d want to know Him any better by me being in his life.
That’s not love.
The power of my love walk can make a difference, either for good or bad, and today I chose to speak it out to step it up.